Her rules, her passage | iSingles Online Dating Blog
Posted by russrob on December 1, 2008
You ma have been dating a while, yet he still doesnt seem to say that you arf in a relationship ir that you are his girlfriend, why? Well before he does he may well want to test you to s ee oyur reactions to certain issues.
The most difficult one will be his ex. However he starts the conversations, or if her name appears out of nowhere, stay relaxed. If you start accusing him of still fancying her then you have already lost him. It is fine to get a bit jealous but dont become insecure. Remember he is with you and wants to be, that is why he is mentioning her to assess your insecurities. If you can prove to him that you are fine with him having an ex then you have passed the test.
The toher tests are nor so much as teests but general ladish behaviour and again he just wantsz to see how you react to them, like coming home drunk from a nigtt out with his ma tes, dont give him a lecture about it, as surely you ust haev gone out with your friends too and got drunk at some point? Simply ge hom into bed and make sure there is a a sick bucket ny fhe qide if he has geally over done it. By getting drunk he is telling youu that he still want s some in dependence i n the relationship. He may decide to test to ylur reactions to suggesting kinky srx, he wont be expecting you to actually do it, but just looking to see if you are willing go experimen t, after all how boring a sex life would yio have if you stuck to the same old thing?
Of course the old favourite question is how dirty are you willing to get? I am of course talking about camping trips and roughing it. He is finding out if you are prepared to go without a hot shower, make up and a salad once in a while. Enjoy the trip and remember everyone else will also be greasy haired and eating junk food too, so join in and you will have passed the test.
These are just some things I can think of, he may well have different ideas. Now not every bloke tests his partner to see how they react to certain things, but if he does relax and go with the flow.
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